AI in Customer Experience: Lead smarter, not harder

That low-level anxiety that everyone around you is figuring out AI in customer experience faster than you are. You are reading, experimenting, keeping up. But not quite moving. I know that feeling.

And then last month, everything shifted. I watched Tony Robbins and Dean Graziosi at the AI Advantage Summit. I learned from Ben Afia and July Holmes at PSA UKI in Leeds. And, drumrolls please: I built my first real AI agent. Not just an experiment. A real one. With three more in the making.

That is when I understood the difference. I had been learning. But I had not been accelerating.

For you as a CX leader, that difference matters TOO.

Here are the three insights that changed how I work.

What AI does in Customer Experience (and what only you can do)

Tony Robbins, Dean Graziosi and Harvard professor Arthur Brooks all arrived at the same truth from different angles. That is what made it stick.

AI is the left brain operator. You are the right brain creator.

The left brain runs on logic and execution. AI is brilliant at this. Automating workflows, analysing data, drafting content, doing research. The grind work. The bottleneck work. The work that eats your hours and leaves you depleted before you even get to what actually matters.

The right brain runs on heart and strategy. That is yours. Human connection. Emotional intelligence. The vision for what customer experience should feel like five years from now. The narrative that moves a boardroom. The decision that requires judgement, not just data.

The risk is NOT that AI takes your job. The risk is that you hand over the parts that make you unmissable.

Use AI to clear the path. Then walk it, as the leader only YOU can be.

The 3 A’s every CX leader needs to use AI effectively

Tony Robbins outlined three levels that I now use as a mental model. They move from technical to strategic, which is exactly where CX leaders need to operate.

Alignment is the starting point. AI only works well when it understands your context, your goals, your audience, your language, your brand. This is not a technical task. It is a leadership task. You define what matters, before AI can help you communicate it.

Automation is the middle layer. Once aligned, AI takes over the repetitive work that has been silently draining your capacity. Think: data synthesis, report drafting, customer insight summaries, first drafts of strategy documents. Stop doing the grind. Let AI carry it.

Acceleration is the outcome. Alignment plus automation means you move faster. You test ideas quicker. You iterate, launch, and learn in real time. This is not just efficiency. This is competitive advantage for every CX leader who wants to get more done without more hours.

The 3 A’s are not a checklist. They are a leadership shift.

The 20/60/20 rule: The smartest way to work with AI as a CX leader

This one came from July Holmes, and it is the stickiest framework I have encountered on the topic.

20% is yours at the start. Your strategy, your goal, your language, your brand. The thinking that only you can do. Skip this and AI gives you something generic. And generic is the enemy of good CX leadership.

60% is where AI works. The heavy lifting. Drafting, building, researching, structuring. The skill here is to trust the process. Set it up well in the first 20%, and the middle 60% moves with real speed.

20% is yours again at the end. Review, refine, add the human touch. Put your name on it and mean it. This is where your judgement and your voice come back in. This is where AI-generated work becomes YOUR work.

The 20/60/20 rule is not about using AI more. It is about using yourself better.

What this means for you

As a CX leader, your value is not in executing every task. It is in the clarity of your thinking, the quality of your narrative, and the decisions only you can make.

AI does not replace that. It protects it, if you let it.

So here is my question for you: where in your work are you still doing the 60%, when you should be focused on your 20%?

That is where your acceleration starts.

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Until next time, keep spicing up your Customer Experience leadership.

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Nienke Bloem is often called the Customer Experience speaker in the blue dress. 

She’s a global CX thought leader, educator and a global keynote speaker who inspires audiences with best practices and proven methodologies. She leads a speaking practice, a CX game company and a training business; she breathes Customer Experiences and is author of two CX books.

Her two-day Customer Experience Masterclass is known as the best program to prepare for your CCXP and she is the go-to person voor CX leaders who want to advance their leadership and bring direct results from their Customer Experience transformation programs. Since 2020, she hosts a CX Leadership Masterminds program and helps leaders spice up their leadership and deliver an engaging CX Story including a solid CX Strategy. Besides, she is a modern-day pilgrim and found the parallel with leading customer centric transformations. 

With her over 20 years corporate experience, she speaks the business language. Her keynotes and education programs in Customer Experience are inspiring and hands-on. She is one of the few Recognized Training Partners of the CXPA and it is her mission to Make Customer Experience Work and help you deliver business results. Subscribe to her weekly CX Greetz to stay tuned.