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In love, engaged or is it complicated?

Yes, it is. February, the month of love. Or to be more precise, the month in which Valentine's Day falls. That day when a lot of people send a card. Buy a bar of chocolate that says "I love you" and then give it to a loved one. Or send someone a message. To our loved one, a friend, mother, neighbor or daughter.

Actually, the shape doesn't really matter. Showing love can be done in many ways. Say something nice, send or do something nice. It works. It makes your own heart do a dance and therefore also that of the other. Isn't it wonderful to have a column about love? Unfortunately, this is where the happy part ends.

Because I want to switch to another world. That of love for the customer.

That's where my heart stops with the dance. Unfortunately, for many, that's where the imagination stops. Because love for the customer. What does it look like? Should we call the customer and tell them we love her/him (I'll keep it to her for now)? No, we're certainly not going to do that here in the Netherlands, that's too American for us. But that's not the point.

The point is that we do want the customer to love us and give us a nine or ten in the survey. That she spends her money with us every year. Tacitly renews the contract. Buy more policies. Tacitly accepts the price increase and let's hope she doesn't call. That she doesn't disturb us with our work, but mainly finds her own way, digitally.

Love. That's exactly where things go wrong in organizations. We don't really like the customer. Of who she is. What she's doing. We do want her to choose us. But even if she, as a customer (i.e. citizen, participant or applicant), cannot choose, that she does not bother us too much.

That's what we're talking about here. About whether you and your colleagues are in love, engaged, or married to the customer. And whether you really feel something about it. Or is it complicated? (Thank you Facebook, for allowing us to choose this wonderful addition within "types of relationships"). After all, do we talk about the customer internally as if we love her? Or do we prefer to use her customer number? Do we talk about customers in meetings, or do we prefer to stick to the process?

The love for the customer is a topic that should really be discussed. Do you love your customer? Ask yourself and your colleagues the question. I suggest that you have this conversation lovingly in your organization. I dare say that Valentine's Day next year will be a very different one.

 

This blog was written for CustomerFirst and published on March 7, 2023

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Nienke Bloem is often called the Customer Experience speaker in the blue dress. 

She's a global CX thought leader, educator and a global keynote speaker who inspires audiences with best practices and proven methodologies. She leads a speaking practice, a CX game company and a training business; she breathes Customer Experiences and is author of two CX books.

Her two-day Customer Experience Masterclass is known as the best program to prepare for your CCXP and she is the go-to person for CX leaders who want to advance their leadership and bring direct results from their Customer Experience transformation programs. Since 2020, she hosts a CX Leadership Masterminds program and helps leaders spice up their leadership and deliver an engaging CX Story including a solid CX Strategy. Besides, she is a modern-day pilgrim and found the parallel with leading customer centric transformations. 

With her over 20 years of corporate experience, she speaks the business language. Her keynotes and education programs in Customer Experience are inspiring and hands-on. She is one of the few Recognized Training Partners of the CXPA and it is her mission to Make Customer Experience Work and help you deliver business results. 

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Why and how to engage your leaders

As a CX leader, you're not the person in charge. In the end, that is someone from the management. So you have to take that into account in a CX program. You don't just manage and advise your team, you also do that with your managers. There is no one who is more important than the other, but you need to know exactly who the high-priority stakeholders are: those are the ones who matter most at that moment. As a CX leader, you need to figure out who that key stakeholder is and make sure you're working together. The better you understand your leader, the better you'll be able to empathize with and respond to the needs of all stakeholders.

I list the 3 best tips to properly involve your leader in your program here:

1. Provide good and relevant information

Communication is key. Without proper communication, it is impossible to build a good relationship. It's your job to provide your supervisor with the information that specifically meets his or her needs. This is information that helps him or her to perform the role of manager well and that supports the making of important decisions. Managers are busy and don't like surprises: the more you respond to them with adequate information, the better.

If you proactively provide relevant information, you build your own credibility and you help your managers to appear credible to their bosses. So it's important that you work on your business acumen. So that you understand what is important to them and how your CX program fits into the organization. That way, you'll build a solid working relationship with your manager.

2. Be helpful

Giving information is good, but think carefully about what you give them and why. You can't get away with 'I'll make a report out of it'. You don't convince people with that. The communication you give should be:

  • Goal-oriented: Think about why you're giving this report. Is it to raise awareness, to bring about a change, to get a decision or something else?
  • Targeted: make sure it's specific to your stakeholder.
  • Appropriate in terms of form and content: how does your manager want to receive the information? In a presentation, a spreadsheet, an action list? Don't make assumptions, just ask and you'll know.
  • Monitor for effectiveness: do you actually see a change in attitude? Has the communication had an effect? If not, change it. Adjust the way you communicate or report.

So make sure your communication style matches the way they like to receive their information.

Be helpful. Recognize that your CX program is just one of many programs and that sometimes you need to help them manage their time. This will help you build your credibility in case something goes wrong.

Don't confuse being helpful with being submissive. No manager expects their team members to blindly follow. Your manager does expect you to think along and take responsibility.

I know of at least one strategy that always works. The strategy of causing others to "stumble over the truth." This means that you're not going to say what customers say or what's hurtful to the organization. No, you let them discover it for themselves. Dan Heath himself explains how this works:

3. Be functionally disobedient

Managers are normal people. They may not have all the answers, but they too learn new things every day. Be sympathetic and realize that they also have work to do.

You don't have to do everything by the book. If your manager asks you to do something that you know isn't best for your manager, the organization, the team, and yourself, you should say so. Have the confidence to challenge decisions. Being able to say no to your manager helps you build your credibility.

Finally, some extra tips to increase engagement

  • Define the active role that top management has in your CX program and keep them engaged; shows that excellent leadership is important within CX and CX programs.
  • Have empathy for the top and realize that they have more limited information than you do and that they are constantly being pulled.
  • Support the board members: they may be new to their role and need extra (subtle) support to ensure they function well in their jobs.
  • Recognize that it takes time for people to change their mindset from a "doer" to a "leader."
  • Make it clear that the CX program or project is a means to achieve the organization's strategy and that the top managers are therefore the top project managers.
  • Know that they also have to advise, to the CEO and other stakeholders. So give an example of the business impact (preferably the ROI) of good individual and organizational competencies of your CX program.
  • Get rid of the idea that risk is bad news.
  • Focus on the business impact and strategic benefits of the CX program – the big picture – and reduce the level of detail in communication.
  • Build a sponsorship culture upwards and downwards: support each other.
  • If you know what drives your manager, you can better manage expectations.
  • Work on building credibility and trust.

 

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Nienke Bloem is often called the Customer Experience speaker in the blue dress. 

She's a global CX thought leader, educator and a global keynote speaker who inspires audiences with best practices and proven methodologies. She leads a speaking practice, a CX game company and a training business; she breathes Customer Experiences and is author of two CX books.

Her two-day Customer Experience Masterclass is known as the best program to prepare for your CCXP and she is the go-to person for CX leaders who want to advance their leadership and bring direct results from their Customer Experience transformation programs. Since 2020, she hosts a CX Leadership Masterminds program and helps leaders spice up their leadership and deliver an engaging CX Story including a solid CX Strategy. Besides, she is a modern-day pilgrim and found the parallel with leading customer centric transformations. 

With her over 20 years of corporate experience, she speaks the business language. Her keynotes and education programs in Customer Experience are inspiring and hands-on. She is one of the few Recognized Training Partners of the CXPA and it is her mission to Make Customer Experience Work and help you deliver business results. 

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Unknown makes unloved

We go back in time about ten years and I am sitting across from my then CEO. I have been in charge of KPN's Customer Excellence team for three months now. I am new to the company, he even a little newer. My goal is to bring the relational NPS from -14 to zero in just under three years.

Yet he asks "Nienke, what result did you achieve with your team last month? Stammering, I bring out that we have a long-term goal. That our growth strategy is focused on reducing detractors, what actions we have for that, that I am confident. 'No, no. I expect you to bring results here every month. Of course it's good that you have plans, but I also want to know what short-term results you've achieved with your team.'

Full of doubt, I left the meeting room. How was I supposed to do that? With such an erratic long-term goal that might grow a point or two per quarter? I consulted a colleague and he told me how he did it.

A light bulb went on for me. All those years I had worked very hard in various roles and management positions, but I had never structurally kept track of my successes (and failures) and reported on them. Nor did I have my story in focus when I spoke to colleagues: I mainly told them what I did. What results I had achieved, I could not tell in a few sentences.

If you work in a large organization, it's important to think about your own marketing. "Huh?!" I hear you say. Yes. That's important if you work in customer service or customer experience, well, really anywhere. But especially in our professions, it's important for people to understand the work you do, how it is linked to the business strategy and the impact you make.

In marketing, they often talk about Know, Like, Trust. Apply this to yourself: make sure management knows you, likes you professionally, and ultimately trusts you. You don't want to leave that to others, so take charge yourself.

I saw a great example last week at the International CX Awards. Vattenfall's CX team won three Awards, including the best B2C CX team in the world! As a big learning point, they told me that the process to the Awards had helped them to tell very concisely where they had achieved successes.

So, dear reader. Is your marketing in order? Do you know and share your successes? Don't underestimate this. Because unknown makes unloved. The choice is yours.

 

This blog was written for CustomerFirst and published on December 13, 2022

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Nienke Bloem is often called the Customer Experience speaker in the blue dress. 

She's a global CX thought leader, educator and a global keynote speaker who inspires audiences with best practices and proven methodologies. She leads a speaking practice, a CX game company and a training business; she breathes Customer Experiences and is author of two CX books.

Her two-day Customer Experience Masterclass is known as the best program to prepare for your CCXP and she is the go-to person for CX leaders who want to advance their leadership and bring direct results from their Customer Experience transformation programs. Since 2020, she hosts a CX Leadership Masterminds program and helps leaders spice up their leadership and deliver an engaging CX Story including a solid CX Strategy. Besides, she is a modern-day pilgrim and found the parallel with leading customer centric transformations. 

With her over 20 years of corporate experience, she speaks the business language. Her keynotes and education programs in Customer Experience are inspiring and hands-on. She is one of the few Recognized Training Partners of the CXPA and it is her mission to Make Customer Experience Work and help you deliver business results. 

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How can you add fun to change?

Customer centric change is a matter of having a long breath: changing behavior and engaging colleagues won't happen in just a month. It is a demanding process, both from you as the initiator, facilitator or leader, as well as from the people you want to engage in the change. Adding FUN to your CHANGE program is a brilliant idea, since it will boost morale and will be distinctive from other programs.

Here are my five tips on how to add more fun to your CX change program and achieve your goals at the same time:

  1. Create an overarching appealing storyline
    Too many CX strategies are linear, corporate schmorporate (sorry for my language). They don't give any excitement and fun and don't create any arousal while you share it. So, what about adding an appealing story line? Using sports, movie scripts, heroes, best practices and all kind of other stories. I still love Project #99 that Clint Payne CCXP started in 2016. He wanted to improve the current customer experience of Multichoice, a South African Telecom and Television provider and created an overarching storyline where he challenged the organization to fix 99 current customer and employee issues. Project #99 is a great tagline that gives context to the change.
  2. Set an appealing BHAG
    How about aiming for the moon when it comes to your CX or change program? How about truly going for an ambitious quantitative and qualitative goal. The example of Project #99, is already a perfect one - fixing 99 issues in one year. But I have more examples for you. What do you think of this one? In three years, you and your company are best in class in Customer Experience, your NPS is at a certain number (the quantitative part). And that the CEO of your company will share the story of how the organization changed in the last three years to a true customer centric company in the Financial Times or HBR? These kind of moonshots a.k.a. BHAGs (Big Hairy Audacious Goals) work. They add fun and excitement to change.
  3. Celebrate and celebrate milestones
    Too often we just keep going after we delivered a success. But how about turning your BHAG into a couple of milestones that can be celebrated? Or put the spotlight on those that did a fabulous job? Who showed customer centric leadership or is there a team that fixed a big customer issue? My suggestion is that you make sure you have a collection of fun gifts. How about branded t-shirts, water bottles, pens or tailored virtual backgrounds and give those recognition? Have those that did well have lunch with a senior leader. Take them on an inspiration trip, to another customer centric organization or to an amusement park.
  4. Create challenges and visualize them
    What happened in project #99 is that the CX team created challenges and that employees and leaders adopted those challenges. Working on short term projects (don't try to implement a CRM system with this one ????) that have high energy and are supported by senior leadership, they work magic. By making sure the change is pleasant (rather than painful, although it may feel painful at first), it creates a feeling of hope (rather than fear) and it creates a feeling of identity with others who are doing the same. Make sure you visualize the journey of the challenge, so others also understand what they are doing. Have those fun and vibrant visuals (like a logo of your team or project) all around the organization. Both offline and online. Yes, this might require some guerilla marketing actions and you might bump into some conflicts with the communication and facility departments of your organization. But remember: no guts, no glory!
  5. Use fun in your interventions
    Too many workshops are just functional: learning the new behavior by the customer manifesto and delivering on the new brand values. Workshops are important and it is up to you to add fun to them. Some examples.
    1. Create a CX quiz, where you quiz around NPS topics, add some fun CX facts (like from what date was the first complaint) and of course you have a winner.
    2. Play the CX game, this is a fun CX workshop (dressed up as a board game), where the questions and assignments are tailored to your organizations context. The feedback we always hear is: "this was FUN!"
    3. Add persona re-enactment to your customer journey workshop. Bring artifacts like scarves, sports gear, glasses, hats and whatever. Transform your participants of the workshop into customers. My experience is that participants will be a bit hesitant upon starting, but once they get going, everybody will have the most of fun!

You see, there's a lot of things you can do and organize in order to add FUN to CHANGE. And I strongly recommend you do so! Create big or small fun and know it will give you and your colleagues the energy you need to keep the change going. I am curious how you feel about these suggestions. And if you have any other suggestions, please let me know in the comments!

 

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Nienke Bloem is often called the Customer Experience speaker in the blue dress. 

She's a global CX thought leader, educator and a global keynote speaker who inspires audiences with best practices and proven methodologies. She leads a speaking practice, a CX game company and a training business; she breathes Customer Experiences and is author of two CX books.

Her two-day Customer Experience Masterclass is known as the best program to prepare for your CCXP and she is the go-to person for CX leaders who want to advance their leadership and bring direct results from their Customer Experience transformation programs. Since 2020, she hosts a CX Leadership Masterminds program and helps leaders spice up their leadership and deliver an engaging CX Story including a solid CX Strategy. Besides, she is a modern-day pilgrim and found the parallel with leading customer centric transformations. 

With her over 20 years of corporate experience, she speaks the business language. Her keynotes and education programs in Customer Experience are inspiring and hands-on. She is one of the few Recognized Training Partners of the CXPA and it is her mission to Make Customer Experience Work and help you deliver business results. 

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Not recognized

We are at my favorite hotel. The receptionist is waiting for us with a big smile. 'Good afternoon and welcome to...' I tell her we have a room reserved in Bloem's name. She dives into her computer screen and digs up our reservation.

"May I see your ID?" she asks. This surprises me, because it's about the tenth time I've been here. Still, why the legitimacy every time? It must be policy. I don't feel like being difficult, so I fish my driver's license out of my wallet.

Also, in the meantime, I grabbed my credit card. Because I was scammed online last year and so I have new credit card information. 'Can I have yours too?' she asks my husband. He looks at my credit card and she adds "I mean your ID. Huh! Does the guest also have to provide identification? A small sigh escapes me.

'Then the room costs X euros. To this we then add 50 euros per person, for if you go for breakfast, use the room service or bar, if you break something and other things. You will get this refunded if you don't use it. Agreed? I roll my eyes at my husband. 'If we break something! I guess it's also policy and I know she's probably an intern. But this really does feel like the first time we've been here AND like we're going to get drunk, smoke stoned and then smash up the room. Just a little warning for us. Anyway, we are in Amsterdam...

Five minutes later, the procedure is complete. We get our room keys and she explains to us how the elevator works. She also tells us that we have a beautiful room (yes I know, because I specifically asked for it). I briefly ask how things are going with the loyalty system because it went wrong last time. 'Yes ma'am, that does go wrong sometimes, but you can fix that yourself afterwards.' Still no sign of recognition that we are regular visitors. She wishes us a nice stay.

How can this be? Especially in this hotel where we come so often! Where, for the umpteenth time, they do not manage to recognize and greet us at the welcome as returning customers. As a loyal customer, this really makes you feel left out in the cold.

When we get to the room, there is a bear with a handwritten card on the bed. Written by the person with whom I booked the room. Now we do feel welcome. But if I were the director of this hotel, I would immediately do something about the check-in procedure.

 

This blog was written for CustomerFirst and published on February 7, 2023

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Nienke Bloem is often called the Customer Experience speaker in the blue dress. 

She's a global CX thought leader, educator and a global keynote speaker who inspires audiences with best practices and proven methodologies. She leads a speaking practice, a CX game company and a training business; she breathes Customer Experiences and is author of two CX books.

Her two-day Customer Experience Masterclass is known as the best program to prepare for your CCXP and she is the go-to person for CX leaders who want to advance their leadership and bring direct results from their Customer Experience transformation programs. Since 2020, she hosts a CX Leadership Masterminds program and helps leaders spice up their leadership and deliver an engaging CX Story including a solid CX Strategy. Besides, she is a modern-day pilgrim and found the parallel with leading customer centric transformations. 

With her over 20 years of corporate experience, she speaks the business language. Her keynotes and education programs in Customer Experience are inspiring and hands-on. She is one of the few Recognized Training Partners of the CXPA and it is her mission to Make Customer Experience Work and help you deliver business results. 

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Out of sight

The newspaper was delivered later and later. As a morning person, I was bummed about that. In the meantime, I saw the call for new delivery drivers. With a bonus of no less than 1,000 euros for those who want to get on their bike with my newspaper early in the morning. The newspaper has too few deliverers and in my case that causes an inconsistent delivery time.

Because of that irritation about the delivery time, I also asked myself a few critical questions. I couldn't explain why I was taking away a huge pile of old paper every week. You can read a newspaper like that digitally, right?

I switched to a digital subscription during the week with a paper newspaper on Saturdays. In this way, I killed two birds with one stone: one less delivery address for the newspaper in the morning and my choice also has an impact on the environment: less tree felling and no more contribution to the paper shortage.

But here it comes. Since I got this digital subscription, I hardly read the newspaper during the week. It's crazy to read the news on my screen via a newspaper app. I actually already did that through nu.nl. Of course, that's where the nuanced opinion is missing. But then again, what am I missing about that!?

The ritual of taking the newspaper out of the bus, drinking a cup of coffee and then reading the newspaper. This now only happens on Saturdays. That is, if the newspaper is physically there.

What does this have to do with the beautiful field of customer experience? Everything. Because even in that, you can sometimes take people along in a change. And what's happening here with my newspaper app is exactly what's happening with strategy plans as well. With customer promises. With work instructions. They're on the web somewhere. But where again? Employees have to find out for themselves where the information is and what the content was. It's not top of mind and it never will be this way. And then, as management, we find it strange that people don't know, understand or support the company's strategy.

Therefore, if you are going to change, think very carefully about your message, the timing and the means. Check regularly to see if your message has stuck. Don't refer to that message somewhere on the intranet. Or that one fifteen-minute presentation in the digital kickoff. That's right: communication is a profession. Every change requires a strong introduction, a repetition and a visible message. Otherwise becomes out of sight, perhaps out of mind. Or the heart is not even ever found. Just like I don't care about that newspaper app. And we all know how that ends: that's a newspaper.

 

This blog was written for CustomerFirst and published on November 1, 2020

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Nienke Bloem is often called the Customer Experience speaker in the blue dress. 

She's a global CX thought leader, educator and a global keynote speaker who inspires audiences with best practices and proven methodologies. She leads a speaking practice, a CX game company and a training business; she breathes Customer Experiences and is author of two CX books.

Her two-day Customer Experience Masterclass is known as the best program to prepare for your CCXP and she is the go-to person for CX leaders who want to advance their leadership and bring direct results from their Customer Experience transformation programs. Since 2020, she hosts a CX Leadership Masterminds program and helps leaders spice up their leadership and deliver an engaging CX Story including a solid CX Strategy. Besides, she is a modern-day pilgrim and found the parallel with leading customer centric transformations. 

With her over 20 years of corporate experience, she speaks the business language. Her keynotes and education programs in Customer Experience are inspiring and hands-on. She is one of the few Recognized Training Partners of the CXPA and it is her mission to Make Customer Experience Work and help you deliver business results. 

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Set a BHAG

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The best version

It's still summer and I'm in a holiday mood. So, what to write about? About sun, sea and beach? About Magnums, crisps and the two dozen cucumbers we gnawed away on that beach?

I'll just leave out the staff shortage for now, because that's an unsociable subject. We know by now. We have to wait longer for our coffee and our suitcases. There are fewer trains and you also have to wait a little longer in the call centers. All of this requires something new from us as a customer. Patience.

Fortunately, we are fully prepared for that. Nevertheless? Because we have had the holidays, have been to that beach and have taken long walks. We watched the sunset from that mountain and are well rested. Ready for the last few months of 2022.

I predict you, in the near future we can count on our luck as customers. We may practice patience and kindness. Something we may have forgotten in recent times. I call for a loving approach to all staff who serve customers. In restaurants, at the bakery, the butcher, in call centers, the delivery drivers, receptionists, stewards, cleaners and desk staff. You get the idea by now.

Be prepared for the world turned upside down. The service staff is in power. Not us as customers, but them, on the other side of the bar. Because somewhere they have disappeared. They preferred to work at the GGD. Wearing a mask, they stuck a stick in their noses and throats to test. I'd rather do that than serve us as customers. And I understand that. Because how much fun are we as customers? Those disgruntled faces, drumming impatient fingers and disapproving looks. Maybe it's just us, the customer? That has to change.

So are you ready? To be the coolest version of yourself? To call the insurance call center with a smile, while the bill for your renewal is not clear? To just add another five if you're waiting five minutes for your cappuccino and then say a happy Thank You to that girl on the terrace, who is clearly having her first day at work?

Let us as customers be the reason that everyone wants to work in customer service again. Of course, also because it is wonderfully arranged in organizations and is well paid. But mainly because customers are sweet. Because they are patient, even when things don't work out. Because customers give compliments. Be the best version of yourself as a customer in the coming months. The world needs us.

 

This blog was written for CustomerFirst and published on September 6, 2022

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Nienke Bloem is often called the Customer Experience speaker in the blue dress. 

She's a global CX thought leader, educator and a global keynote speaker who inspires audiences with best practices and proven methodologies. She leads a speaking practice, a CX game company and a training business; she breathes Customer Experiences and is author of two CX books.

Her two-day Customer Experience Masterclass is known as the best program to prepare for your CCXP and she is the go-to person for CX leaders who want to advance their leadership and bring direct results from their Customer Experience transformation programs. Since 2020, she hosts a CX Leadership Masterminds program and helps leaders spice up their leadership and deliver an engaging CX Story including a solid CX Strategy. Besides, she is a modern-day pilgrim and found the parallel with leading customer centric transformations. 

With her over 20 years of corporate experience, she speaks the business language. Her keynotes and education programs in Customer Experience are inspiring and hands-on. She is one of the few Recognized Training Partners of the CXPA and it is her mission to Make Customer Experience Work and help you deliver business results. 

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Out of office is out of office

Every month we send out our CX Greetz. CX Greetz is the name of my monthly CX newsletter, and it's based on how I always round up my emails. I'll end with "happy greetz" instead of "sincerely" or whatever you might write there. While we send it to my community of over 2,200 interested people, we also get a lot of out-of-office messages.

Some make me frown: "I'm out of the office right now, when I come back all emails will be deleted, so please resend it on date x". Some make me laugh: "I'm busy watching Christmas movies, see you later", and some make me spontaneously cringe: "I'm on vacation for the next three weeks, but if you really want to reach me, please send me a text."

No. No. No. Of course, this comes across as very helpful and benevolent, but you certainly don't help yourself with that. Let's take a closer look at one such situation: a colleague decides that he needs you for something very important. He texts you and asks for your help and refers to an email he sent you.

You're sitting on the beach with your partner and maybe even with your kids. It's sunny, you drink a cocktail and the sushi is brought within twenty minutes. Your phone makes the text message: "Hi, this is work!" Just when you were supposed to enjoy some mental and physical relaxation.

Because you have a strong sense of responsibility, you open your email and read the message your colleague sent. You answer his question. And now you're at it, so you read all the other emails at the same time. Your partner asks what you're doing and you grumble about coworkers who apparently can't live without you. You see all kinds of things where you are needed. Somehow, the atmosphere and energy has changed.

Believe me, holidays are holidays. You have to be clear: if you're gone, you're gone. Make sure colleagues can manage what needs to be managed. It's only when you're back that you're really back in the office. Because as soon as you start responding to emails and text messages, people think you're available and you've created your own misery.

Make a clear out of office, mentioning who you can contact during your absence, because you are not available right now. Now it's up to you to trust your colleagues to run the place when you're not around. And, of course, to change your voicemail and your WhatsApp profile text.

I think back to my own experience, when I took my laptop with me during my first hiking stage. While I was helping a number of clients and answering emails, they thought I would also answer the questions that came out of that email. Every night I found myself having to open my laptop to check emails. And not only that, every night I sat with work thoughts that stuck in my head. Because I also use WhatsApp in a business context, I then changed my profile text to "Walking pilgrim's path -> date X". When people texted me, I sent them a request to send an email instead and I mentioned that my assistant would take care of it since I was on a pilgrimage. And not at all surprising; Everyone understood!

We humans need mental rest. Time away from the office like vacations, or like I've done, walking a pilgrim path. These are perfect moments for a mental reset. To create the ideal setting, you need to be clear to the outside world. Create boundaries and set the tone. Holidays are Holidays. Not even a little work, not one email.

During the later stages of my pilgrimage, I didn't have my laptop with me, but I also instructed my team in a better way. "Manage all customer emails and requests yourself. I believe in you and when I get back, I'll be fully rested and energized enough to get all the work done again." That was clear to everyone. Mental peace for me and my trust in them made them feel like the company was in safe hands.

Believe me. Clarity and acting on it paves the way. Out of office is out of office.

 

This blog is from my latest book 'CX is a pilgrimage – 50 strategies to spice up your leadership'. The book will be published at the end of September 2022.

 

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Nienke Bloem is often called the Customer Experience speaker in the blue dress. 

She's a global CX thought leader, educator and a global keynote speaker who inspires audiences with best practices and proven methodologies. She leads a speaking practice, a CX game company and a training business; she breathes Customer Experiences and is author of two CX books.

Her two-day Customer Experience Masterclass is known as the best program to prepare for your CCXP and she is the go-to person for CX leaders who want to advance their leadership and bring direct results from their Customer Experience transformation programs. Since 2020, she hosts a CX Leadership Masterminds program and helps leaders spice up their leadership and deliver an engaging CX Story including a solid CX Strategy. Besides, she is a modern-day pilgrim and found the parallel with leading customer centric transformations. 

With her over 20 years of corporate experience, she speaks the business language. Her keynotes and education programs in Customer Experience are inspiring and hands-on. She is one of the few Recognized Training Partners of the CXPA and it is her mission to Make Customer Experience Work and help you deliver business results. 

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Nienke's five-star hotel experience

For my 50th birthday, I booked a room for two nights at the Waldorf Astoria in Rome. Because I wanted to treat myself, but also because I wanted to make my 50th birthday a special experience. It's a very big hotel, so I even upgraded myself to the Imperial Floor. Larger rooms, a special lounge with drinks and snacks, but also – I thought – more personal attention.

Was it a fancy hotel? YES.

Did it have a great spa? YES.

Did it have a beautiful outdoor pool with fluffy beach towels? YES.

Did it have an excellent breakfast? YES.

'Product wise' it was all very good.

But did the hotel have any personal attention regarding my 50th birthday? NO.

It was a disappointment. One of my friends from the Netherlands had arranged a bottle of prosecco, a box of chocolates and a personal note for me, which were delivered to my room on my last night as a 49-year-old. I also mentioned my birthday in the lounge (because I know most CRM systems fail). But on the morning of my 50th birthday, I didn't receive a single congratulatory message from the hotel. Not in my room, not at breakfast, not in the lounge, not at check-out. Nothing. Even though they should have known...

I began to wonder if five-star luxury hotels have become a commodity? I don't know, but I do know that if you're a luxury brand that promises a certain level of personalized service, this is a big mistake. I also shared this story on Linkedin, where many agreed that the hotel missed the mark. But some called it a possible culture gap. That is possible and maybe this is true for Italian birthdays, but the guests at the Waldorf (which I saw) were mostly Americans or English-speaking guests. And I know how important birthdays are to Americans! Even more so than for me as a Dutchman.

The interesting thing was that at check-out, the staff member asked if my stay had been pleasant. And that was true, so that's what I indicated. This is also where they fell short in asking for feedback. (Be sure to read the CX lens blog in which I share my suggestion for them!) And... I didn't receive a survey. The staff of the Waldorf can only read my experience on LinkedIn (or in this blog).

Why did I post on LinkedIn? Not because I wanted to fix this. Because if I had wanted to, I would have called the hotel, or sent a 'complaint'. No, it's more of a question for us as CX professionals. What do you do with these special days? Especially in the leisure industry. Was I expecting too much as a guest? I made this post to share, learn, and get the conversation going.

So, click on to read this case from the professional CX lens!

 

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Nienke Bloem is often called the Customer Experience speaker in the blue dress. 

She's a global CX thought leader, educator and a global keynote speaker who inspires audiences with best practices and proven methodologies. She leads a speaking practice, a CX game company and a training business; she breathes Customer Experiences and is author of two CX books.

Her two-day Customer Experience Masterclass is known as the best program to prepare for your CCXP and she is the go-to person for CX leaders who want to advance their leadership and bring direct results from their Customer Experience transformation programs. Since 2020, she hosts a CX Leadership Masterminds program and helps leaders spice up their leadership and deliver an engaging CX Story including a solid CX Strategy. Besides, she is a modern-day pilgrim and found the parallel with leading customer centric transformations. 

With her over 20 years of corporate experience, she speaks the business language. Her keynotes and education programs in Customer Experience are inspiring and hands-on. She is one of the few Recognized Training Partners of the CXPA and it is her mission to Make Customer Experience Work and help you deliver business results. 

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